{"id":348,"date":"2022-09-12T00:00:28","date_gmt":"2022-09-12T00:00:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.neflfuneral.com\/?p=348"},"modified":"2022-08-29T16:59:55","modified_gmt":"2022-08-29T16:59:55","slug":"how-to-divide-the-deceaseds-possessions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.neflfuneral.com\/how-to-divide-the-deceaseds-possessions\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Divide the Deceased\u2019s Possessions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Organizing, going through, and dividing possessions is very difficult. It can be made easier when there is a clear will or an executor, but a lot of times there isn\u2019t, and the family is left to do it all on their own. Beyond planning <a href=\"https:\/\/www.neflfuneral.com\/pages\/funeral-home-cremations-jacksonville-fl\">cremation services in Lev Jacksonville, FL<\/a> the bereaved are also responsible for coming up with a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.neflfuneral.com\/our-services\/\">plan<\/a> for the deceased\u2019s possessions, which can lead to a lot of tension.<\/p>\n<p>These tips can help you divide your loved one\u2019s possessions with as little pain and tension as possible.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Compromise \u2013<\/strong> Remember, this is your family, and everyone is hurting after the loss. Try to act with empathy and come to compromises whenever possible.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Use Stickers \u2013<\/strong> Give each family member stickers of a certain color and have them place stickers on items they want. Items with only one sticker can go to that person, but items with more than one sticker will have to be divided another way, like taking turns.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Make Copies \u2013<\/strong> There are some items that can be shared thanks to modern technology. Make digital copies of old family photos, movies, and tapes and then distribute the files so everyone has their own copy. Digitizing these old memories is a good idea beyond dividing them evenly as it protects them for future generations to enjoy.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Don\u2019t Leave Anyone Out \u2013<\/strong> Try to think of anyone that would appreciate a piece of the deceased\u2019s life and memory. From aunts and uncles to long lost cousins, caregivers, friends and neighbors, you\u2019d be surprised at who would greatly appreciate a token to remember the deceased by.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Think Before You Donate \u2013<\/strong> While donating unwanted items is generous and helpful, be careful not to donate too quickly. Really take your time and think about each item. While it might not be wanted now, it might end up being very important down the line.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Get Appraisals \u2013<\/strong> Some items might have significant monetary value, such as coins, jewelry, antiques, and other valuable things. Take the guesswork out and get a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.neflfuneral.com\/about-us\/\">professional<\/a> appraiser to determine the exact value of every item. Once the values are established, divide everything as evenly as possible making sure each person ends up with about the same monetary value amount. If there are items that no one wants, sell them, and divide the proceeds.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Take Turns \u2013<\/strong> Take turns picking items and draw straws or use another method to determine the order. Think of it like a sports draft. It\u2019s a fair way to make sure everyone gets a chance to choose something meaningful to them. It\u2019s also an interesting and sort of special way to see which items mean the most to which people. You might have never known how much your sister valued Grandma\u2019s cookie jar otherwise.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-350 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.neflfuneral.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/cremation-services-in-Lev-Jacksonville-FL-1-300x202.jpg\" alt=\"cremation services in Lev Jacksonville, FL\" width=\"237\" height=\"160\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.neflfuneral.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/cremation-services-in-Lev-Jacksonville-FL-1-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.neflfuneral.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/cremation-services-in-Lev-Jacksonville-FL-1-768x518.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.neflfuneral.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/cremation-services-in-Lev-Jacksonville-FL-1-217x146.jpg 217w, https:\/\/blog.neflfuneral.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/cremation-services-in-Lev-Jacksonville-FL-1-50x34.jpg 50w, https:\/\/blog.neflfuneral.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/cremation-services-in-Lev-Jacksonville-FL-1-111x75.jpg 111w, https:\/\/blog.neflfuneral.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/cremation-services-in-Lev-Jacksonville-FL-1.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 237px) 100vw, 237px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Despite what many people may think, it isn\u2019t the most valuable items that cause the most problems. It\u2019s usually the smaller, more sentimental items that can lead to arguments and pain, so use these tips to get started.<\/p>\n<p>We are here to help if you want more help or information about Jacksonville, FL <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.neflfuneral.com\/personalized-memorials-after-cremation-services\/\">cremation services<\/a> or other death related topics.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Organizing, going through, and dividing possessions is very difficult. 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